202. Do You Push Away The Good Stuff?

When you're feeling in a rut or in a bad mood, do you tend to focus on eliminating negative emotions or inviting more positive ones in? If you swing toward the negative, well then welcome to the club! This is a common approach. The problem is that it misses half the picture and doesn't support our resilience. We'll talk about the challenges of letting in positive experiences and the psychological effects that can hinder this, such as avoidance of positivity and the contrast effect. What's the solution to this? Well, it's actually much of the work we do here at Joy Lab. Stay with us for each episode and join the Joy Lab program to build this skill of letting in more of the good. 

 

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Key moments:  

 

00:00 Welcome to Joy Lab

00:32 Exploring Equanimity

00:55 Negative vs. Positive Focus

01:50 Understanding Depression

03:51 Research Insights on Depression

10:25 Avoidance and Fear of Positivity

14:08 Embracing Positivity

17:33 Closing Thoughts and Mary Oliver's Wisdom

 

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Sources and Notes:

  • Joy Lab Program: Take the next leap in your wellbeing journey with step-by-step practices to help you build and maintain the elements of joy in your life.

 

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